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Question: Porn in a relationship? state whether ur male or female. what do u think about it?

(Posted by: curious on 2008-07-09 20:37:51)

What is your opinion? a couple is completely in love with each other and has sex 2 or 3 times a day. she finds out hes looking at porn online and is very hurt and expresses that to him, he says he won't anymore and had a few excuses. a year- ish later, still good sex life not quite as much but still good...they get engaged and she becomes pregnant. hes all freaked out thinking hes gonna hurt the baby so they only had sex like 5 times throughout the entire pregnancy. she finds out again he was looking at porn while she was preg. the baby was a little older and of course got busted again because u always will sooner or later. she brakes up with him but doesn't last longer then a day. he had a his computer packed up and everything and swears he won't, he just wasn't getting any love. recently was caught again and she gave him back her ring said she was done. he said its a "release " and she said she doesn't feel good enough and its degrading. she let him come back, but she can't trust him i am not into watching it together, i am way too jealous and insecure. it would never work.

Posted by: Sinful_Elegance on 2008-07-09, 20:44:19

Chick: I told my bf that I didn't appreciate it, and I didn't feel good enough either when he looked at it. I think its gross, but I think its a guy thing. If he isn't cheating and sleeping with other women then try to go past it. Good luck

Posted by: DJ Xtaccy on 2008-07-09, 20:54:15

I think if both partners enjoy it, than its alright. however its an unloving way to bond. meaningless, however could get you in a romantic and intimid mood. up to the couple. male, by the way.

Posted by: Fallgal on 2008-07-09, 21:15:20

I have been married a couple times, and have had a few boyfriends. Each one I told I didn't appreciate porn in the house. Each one respected my feelings and there was never any magazines, DVDs or internet porn. It is a matter of respect. If your boyfriend cannot respect your wishes, I might think he has an addiction, and needs to see a professional. How would he feel if you preferred a sex toy to him? or preferred watching TV to making love with him? He'd feel not good enough, sad, depressed and unwanted. Try to explain it to him in terms he can understand. If you feel very strongly about it, I'd only give him one last chance.