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Question: Why do females fail at keeping males in relationships?

(Posted by: bushisapigf_cker on 2008-07-22 07:02:11)

Why do females fail at keeping males in relationships? Why are women more concerned with building a family and community? Why do women want to get married? Why don't women understand that a man has no desire for children? Why don't women realize that men only are interested in sex, have only ever been interested in sex since the dawn of time, and will only ever be interested in sex for all eternity? Do women realize the leading cause for divorce is marriage?

Posted by: foxy on 2008-07-22, 07:07:16

Got news for you, not all men think as you do.

Posted by: Blue Martini on 2008-07-22, 07:07:41

By the sound of you you'll never be happy regardless of who your with.

Posted by: Bethy4 on 2008-07-22, 07:07:53

Oh but when you find a woman that isn't into marriage and just wants you for sex, she is labeled. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. God Bless.

Posted by: Chrissy Q on 2008-07-22, 07:08:42

Why do men fear committment? Why do men always want perfection? Why do men always assume that they are Gods? Why do men lack normal social skills and the ability to think logically?? Why dont u grow up and get over urself? Women arent the problem. its is idiots like u...

Posted by: Ambryn on 2008-07-22, 07:09:10

Whoa. Not all guys are just interested in sex. Most are but not all. My boyfriend certainly isn't or we wouldn't be together. Some men do want to get married and have children but guys sometimes get freaked out when being in a long term relationship because they feel like they are being tied down and won't be able to have fun with their friends anymore. Give the guy a break.

Posted by: Jeremy F on 2008-07-22, 07:09:51

Your opinion is not the opinion of all men. Far from it, actually. Consider that you're mostly just describing yourself and applying that to all men.

Posted by: logical1 on 2008-07-22, 07:10:05

I think both men AND women think alot about sex, and therefore it's definitely very important in a relationship. Another important thing is people get lonely and want friends and people around who understand and care about them. I also think that it's possible to like somebody or have good physical chemistry with them, but for a relationship with them to be doomed for whatever reason. Some people realize that they are taking a risk and still get married, and then the relationship fails.....or a good relationship later dies. But I don't think that this is completely the woman's fault. I think that in a healthy relationship, both people contribute to the problems and the good parts of the relationship. The goal is to find somebody that you like and are compatible with AND to make sure that both of you have similar plans and goals and can BE in a relationship even.

Posted by: sr_engr on 2008-07-22, 07:10:14

It sounds like you are carrying the standard american sex-culture party line. I married my wife because I wanted a family and a relational monopoly.. she was that wonderful. I married my wife because I wanted children.. and now I have a child. The leading cause of divorce is divorce. There are a good number of marriages that last a whole lifetime, and are good and rich and rewarding. If you are only a penis... they you have lost your humanity. What differentiates you from a dog? Are you really a higher life-form than something that will eat its own vomit because of a yummy smell. Higher beings are not dominated by their penis, nor their stomach like lesser beings. They think, understand, and rule over lesser beings.

Posted by: Roxane on 2008-07-22, 07:10:55

It's natural.all of them in this world wanna marriage except few.if u r a woman then u can get answer for all ur questions with experience.

Posted by: ♥ ♥ Katie ♥ ♥ on 2008-07-22, 07:11:06

Honey the only cause of divorce is MARRIAGE!! You wanna know why? cause you can divorce if your not married!!

Posted by: sandy on 2008-07-22, 07:11:15

Only a dumb guy would say a thing like that get real stop hating on girls ! grow up only an immature guy would think like you or a chauvinistic one !

Posted by: Sugarbutt on 2008-07-22, 07:11:19

Females Perspective: Why do females fail at keeping males in relationships? -- Men are cowards who cant make their own decisions, thus allowing women to push them in whichever direction they want. Women have no control over what a man does, unless he himself allows it. Why are women more concerned with building a family and community? --Womens instinct is to nourish and protect. We are more emotional and caring, thus we worry about our community, not like the male spectrum who worries only about himself. Why do women want to get married? -- I dont want to get married. So that just proves that this question is allll wrong. Why don't women understand that a man has no desire for children? -- I have no desire for children. If men didnt want children, thats fine. Keep their dicks in the pants, thatrs all. Why don't women realize that men only are interested in sex, have only ever been interested in sex since the dawn of time, and will only ever be interested in sex for all eternity? --Women enjoy sex too, so prepare to feel just as used as you apparently think we feel. Do women realize the leading cause for divorce is marriage? --Funny

Posted by: King Midas on 2008-07-22, 07:11:35

1. They violate rule number one, never bring your good looking single girlfriends around your man. 2. Because they are more nurturing than men. 3. So that they don't grow up old and alone. 4. You are wrong most mature men want kids. 5. Maybe that is why most marriages end in divorce, because they think like you. 6. The leading cause of divorce is most couples don't understand that meaning of marriage. Hollywood plays a big part too.

Posted by: Stephanie S on 2008-07-22, 07:14:11

1. Takes two to make a relationship and it takes two to break one. It's not just women that "fail " to make it work. 2. That's not exclusive to women. 3. Plenty of men want to get married to. Not all men are "forced ", so to speak, to get engaged. 4. Really - that's funny cause I know LOTS of men who want kids. You must be under 25. Once you hit 25, you'll probably change your mind. If you're over 25, welll - so YOU don't want kids, but YOU don't speak for all men. 5. We know that guys want sex, but again - as a man MATURES (which apparently you ain't hit yet and dude, if you ARE over 25, you NEVER will and that is sad, sad, sad) he wants stability and companionship as much as a woman does. Again - YOU don't speak for ALL men. 6. Well, that's just stupid - no one holds a gun to any man or woman's head to get married. AGAIN - YOU DON'T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN. P.S. Just cause you feel that way doesn't mean that all men feel that way.

Posted by: onehundred13 on 2008-07-22, 07:14:56

Seriously, you need to have a look at how these things that you believe so strongly in, shape your life and your own insecurities and choices. I used to believe that all men were bastards.. and guess what? Bastards were the only ones I could see / find / choose. Change your mind. Change your life. good luck

Posted by: royalstealth@y7mail.com on 2008-07-22, 07:16:24

Lol well you definately are a dumb male. You ask alot of questions you dont even have the answer to. What a tosser lol

Posted by: Special K on 2008-07-22, 07:17:05

Obviously you are not married. Marriage can be a really good thing if you find the right person, and you both have the same goals in life. Oh, and by the way alot of men want to have children, and alot of women don't. You assessment is very narrow and ignorant.

Posted by: chel-ann c on 2008-07-22, 07:23:35

Hi bushisap! well i think u have well an truly told here young man by all the yls, u really should get over yrself, relationships r more than just about sex there about communication and if u dont have that then u have nothing, u may wake up one day and find ur a very lonely bitter old man, who no-one will want and probably end up dying of aids anyway, or god forbid giving it to some poor unsuspecting female, karma will come for you one day! chel-ann

Posted by: simplesimon on 2008-07-22, 07:26:37

Sounds like you have a problem with females. or You are over analyzing. Mellow out & enjoy yourself.

Posted by: Jules on 2008-07-25, 01:55:54

I've never failed at keeping a man in a relationship. They've failed at keeping me. Bar one.. ;-) Why do men always assume that a woman wants his children? Why do men assume that all they have to do is say the word and we women will jump at the chance to marry them? Why don't men just suck it up & realise they're not the centre of the universe?