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Question: This is for the males and females (that are in a relationship or at least had one)?

(Posted by: onlyloving4you on 2008-09-24 12:23:29)

Ok i just recently had this weird argument with my fiance ... its a long story ... I just want everyone on here to tell me about your biggest argument with your loved one, like what was it about and how did you guys make up the whole scenario ya know i just need advice and stuff and i also want to look out for and what to do about the men in our lives and (guys) what do u want from a woman when u are with her like what are u expecting from her (everything) and (women) what is it about us that makes us so irritated with these men?? Pls Be nice DO NOT BE RUDE i have nothing against anyone plus i love my fiance i just wanted to know ... so be very detailed... ok love yaz!!! MuuWaaHz *- * Gays, Lesbians, and Trannies are also allowed to answer my question we are all equal no matter what and i care less what anyone has to say about me from this comment we dont call each other names or anything like that and fight and all that other stuff im talking about a normal fight listen if you have nuthing to say on this subject dont answer like im tired of the ignorant people on here im not asking u to write if you dont want to and dont tell me how to state my question its mine i think i can say whatever i like thank you very much for the others thanx so much for the stories and advice and not being ignorant like the (otherz) blah!!! *- *

Posted by: Agony Aunt on 2008-09-24, 12:28:11

Your way of writing wont fetch u any answers hun!

Posted by: buddywilshire2003 on 2008-09-24, 12:35:51

Thank god Trannies are allowed to answer, that makes me feel better.

Posted by: iDanielle. on 2008-09-24, 12:40:15

Well I am currently in a relationship and I'd have to say our biggest argument was on November 5th, 2007. Yeah, haha I can still remember! It was miserable. We were playing a game and on the game you can get married lol. Well I had no clue he liked before and so I was pretty bored & he was too I suppose. When you get married in this game, you get more privileges to do other stuff. He said he wanted to check out some of the stuff and he asked me if he would marry him just for the privileges. Of course, I said yes cause I thought of him as my bestest friend ever. (Don't think wrong, we know each other in real life >. > Just playing a game here) ANYWAYS, I had another friend with me and he signed off. I thought he disconnected or something, instead he came back with a new character that I did not know of. So my friend was talking to me about him, and I kind of slipped and said something harsh. He returned to his original character and ignored me. He was ignoring me when I said welcome back which kind of worried me because he wasn't like this. I knew he was there of course, and I asked him whats' wrong. Then he told me what he heard and I really felt bad but then again, he acted terribly to it and we started yelling at each other. I thought he only wanted to do the marriage thing because he wanted to try the privileges but instead, he really liked me. I even broke the ring he made for me on it and it takes a while to actually create one. Then, later we made up. I didn't know that he had always liked me after a few days later because he made his friend ask me out! Lol. Don't worry, my advice is to just sit down and think about the situation. Don't think about yourself too much at the moment. Try to bring in how your fiance feels like, and how you feel like. It's not just you who feels bad. If it's over something silly, then you should know to end it and solve it. Be the one to make the first move here!

Posted by: AAMMHH on 2008-09-24, 12:42:07

You might get better advice if you say what you fought about. My honey and I rarely argue. When we disagree, we discuss it and try to be respectful. No name calling, no raising our voices. No low blows. We talk about how we are feeling, no accusations. The point is always to resolve whatever the issue is, not just blow off steam or lash out at each other.

Posted by: KelsB on 2008-09-24, 12:48:46

I think the biggest argument I have ever had with my hubby is when we were dating and his parents were treating me increasingly badly. At first he didn't realize and it made it hard for me to explain what was going on (didn't want to "dog " his family and create a worse situation). The fighting went on for a long time and I tried to show him what was going on with his family (I am not going to give details because it would take forever and my fingers would get sore...lol). Anyway finally something happened right in front of him, mom slipped up, and he lost it on them. Ever since he has supported me and I have been number one. We still see his parents and are working on a good relationship with them because I know how important family is. It's been alot better ever since.