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Question: Three people involved here- 2 people involved in a relationship (male & female) & a female friend to both of ?

(Posted by: The Knowledge Goddess on 2008-10-10 03:05:22)

Them. The friend told the male his girlfriend has herpes. After confrontation, she expressed concern for the male. Was it her place AT ALL to tell him that??? (no she does not want him, shes married).

Posted by: old_woman_84 on 2008-10-10, 03:18:52

He needed to be told. Was the girlfriend going to tell him??? No, it was not her place to tell him--it was the girlfriend's--but seemingly she was NOT telling him.

Posted by: cutesuelea on 2008-10-10, 03:19:02

Sounds like there's a bit of spitefulness involved. The third friend should mind her own business after all (she's married). Maybe it has already been discussed between the two people involved in the relationship and the female friend (who's married) should just mind her own business and worry about her own marriage.

Posted by: nikki can't be stopped ;p on 2008-10-10, 03:29:32

Well, don't you think he deserved to know? That's kind of messed up and if he didn't have herpes, means she probably cheated. So she gave him herpes and cheated on him. I think he deserved to know. The girlfriend wasn't gonna say anything.